同性恋对吗?Is Gay OK?


Is Gay okay?

Did you know that being gay is a choice? No one is born gay. Over the years, scientific studies have been done to try prove that homosexuality is genetic, but the results are: No one is born gay. Gay is a choice.

So why choose to be gay?
The fact is many “gay” people are not really gay. They think it is fashionable to act gay. This is foolish. Why not just be yourself? Furthermore there are far fewer gay people in the world than people think. In the U.S. for example, only about 4% of men and 1% of women are gay.
Some people are gay because they were pressurized into it. They have certain feelings and are told that these are gay feelings; that they were born gay and that they should just accept that they are gay. Again, no one is born gay.
Other people choose to be gay because they see it as an alternate life of freedom. It is not. Gay people are often emotionally unstable and struggle with guilt. Anyone who is gay is struggling with their own conscience. In addition to this pressure, there is the increased danger of becoming HIV+.

One of the saddest experiences I have had happened when I was working in an inner-city church. A man came to see us. We knew that he was gay because all he had to wear was women's clothes. He was crying and needed help: He had just been diagnosed HIV+.
I counseled him and prayed with him. We gave him men's clothes and baptized him into Jesus. During that time, he said these most unforgettable words, "I always knew in my heart that it was wrong to be gay."

Soon after that, he left our city to live in an AIDS village set up by Christians. He said he had to leave because if his boyfriend found out he was HIV+, he would kill him. I was surprised and realized from that day that gay people are not the happy and peaceful people they claim to be.

So Jesus saved him and because this was many years ago, he has probably died. The good news is that if he stayed committed to Jesus, he is in heaven now.

Jesus loves gay people - but hates homosexuality[1]. He never created anyone gay. If God did create people gay, and then condemned them, He would not be very fair - would He? Homosexuality is a sinful choice. People can choose to be gay - and they can choose NOT to be gay. In the 1st century we read about a church where people were gay - but they changed. Look at these verses:

“Don't you know that wicked people won't inherit the kingdom of God? Stop deceiving yourselves! People who continue to commit sexual sins, who worship false gods, those who commit adultery, homosexuals, or thieves, those who are greedy or drunk, who use abusive language, or who rob people will not inherit the kingdom of God. That's what some of you were! But you have been washed and made holy, and you have received God's approval in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and in the Spirit of our God” [1 CORINTHIANS 6:9-11]

Anyone who is gay CAN change. Jesus wants to wash you and make you holy!
All sin actually stems from an emptiness inside. People strive for money, power, sex - but none of these things satisfy for long. The problem is we are trying to fill a spiritual need with physical things. Only Jesus can meet the deepest needs of our hearts. Come home to Jesus.

by 德明; Chinese by Gadfly and Una

Bible references

[1] When a man has sexual intercourse with another man as with a woman, both men are doing something disgusting and must be put to death. They deserve to die. LEVITICUS 20:13

Additional Comment

Some people ask: "Why are you writing such bad things about homosexuals? Just leave them alone."

The fact is we have to address this because society is under threat.

Marriage is the union of a man and a woman. Homosexuality threatens that. Once homosexuality is accepted, the concept of marriage is damaged. Strong marriages* make strong families make strong societies.

Whether one believes in God or not, one has to accept that in order for society to function rules are needed. Undermining the ancient definition of marriage - the union of a man and wife - is to remove a foundational stone from society. There will no longer any moral argument against polygamy, and beastiality. If one man can marry a man, why can't one man have three wives? If one woman marries two woman, why can't a man sleep with an animal?

Again, society is under threat. This is why God destroyed the homosexual cities of Sodom and Gemorrah. (See Genesis 19.)

* Marriages often break down because the husband and/or wife are unfaithful. This too breaks down the family and society and the guilty will be judged by God. "This is another thing you do: you cover the altar of the LORD with tears, with weeping and with groaning, because He no longer regards the offering or accepts it with favor from your hand. “Yet you say, ‘For what reason?’ Because the LORD has been a witness between you and the wife of your youth, against whom you have dealt treacherously, though she is your companion and your wife by covenant. “But not one has done so who has a remnant of the Spirit. And what did that one do while he was seeking a godly offspring? Take heed then to your spirit, and let no one deal treacherously against the wife of your youth. “For I hate divorce,” says the LORD, the God of Israel, “and him who covers his garment with wrong,” says the LORD of hosts. “So take heed to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously" (Malachi 2:13-16.)

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